Neil 10/28/2009

We are here today to remember and celebrate a great mans life. As the oldest out-law of the family, I paved the way for the other Son-In-Laws and Daughter-In Law. I was sure the first 6 months I knew him that he hated me as he never talked to me, just sit in his chair and read the paper. I am not sure I saw his face until 3 or 4 months. Dad was a man that loved a good joke and if he could make you blush all the better. Remember me in the living room doing OH WA TA GO SIAM!!! Can yu say Red in the face when I finally figured it out. Dad was a good listener, and would always make time for you and take a real interest in what yoiu had to say and were doing. A good Friend and Mentor. Even though at times wanting, what all of us thought, was too much perfection on a project or wanting to draw more pictures so everyone would know the plan. A pencil and pad were never far from reach. And if you saw him heading for the kitchen draw, well pull up a chair as you were going to there for awhile. As a father, well, Kathy had all the love and support and toughest road as the oldest. Mary got off a little easier as Kathy paved the way, and Judy, well lets just say wild child ... but Jack .. His son, well he had it made, after dealing with all the girls, Dad was happy to see his boy take on many and all endeavors. Looking at all the kids today ... wee .. he did a fine job in their growth into adulthood. He may not have always agreed with the things we did or our choices but he would always support our decisions and be there when we needed him. Dad fought a strong battle these past few years. Having been with him on this 86th birthday, I could still see his determination, strength, wisdome and vast knowledge and his desire to partake in every aspect of life. His life clearly defined what all of us should strive for: Be a Friend Be a Mentor Be a loving Husband, Father and Grandfather Dad we are all proud of you and know you will alwyas be in our hearts and thoughts. We will truly miss a great Man